For renneting you are looking for a "delta" (change) of around .05 to .1 depending on the cheese. So, if you start at 6.7 you should rennet around 6.65. Otherwise, as you said, you will have a runaway acid train. You should not use absolute values.
Now, that being said, the fact that you are seeing high pH values on 4 different store bought and raw milks strongly suggests that your problem lies in your meter and/or calibration. Store bought is often standardized so you should not see pH values that high. Normally, a pH of 6.9 would suggest an elevated somatic cell count and indicate that an infectious process (usually mastitis) is either in the works or coming. So, I personally won't make cheese if the pH really is that high. (I don't think that's the case with your milk).
You should do at least a 2-point calibration at pH 4 and pH 7 every time before starting a make. I also do a third point at 10. If your meter will only do a 1-point, then it may not be accurate enough. Some inexpensive meters are only accurate to within .1 anyway. Your calibration fluid may be contaminated. If you have a hydroponics store near by, they might check your calibration for you (and try to sell you new fluid).