Kern, that is exactly what I do! Using my hands until the curd is a bit more sturdy works very well for me. It is also much easier to gently break apart the clumps that sometimes want to form. I have done gouda start to finish just using my hands for stirring and this was really a nice experience. One with the curd and all that. Can't do that with thermophilic though.... I took a class with Peter Dixon and he gathered up the curd from an asiago (118 degrees) that way - I think he may have scalded his arms so many times that he no longer notices.