Phischy, you've got a partial and correct answer from FarmerJd. As for my press, I shall upgrade the present one with the pulley and string system. The press has an arm length that gives a 4x multiplier in 0.5 increments. The pulley system should provide an additional 2x multiplier, mine will have a 3x multiplier as you can see on the attached pics.
The strength of the design depends on the bolt size that has to withstand shear force due to the forces between the plunger and the hor arm and bending of the arm.
In my design there are 1/4" bolts and two parallel arms made of 3/4" x 1-1/2" pine. The maximum weight applied ever, was 10 kgs at the end of the arm, which gives 40 kgs on the plunger.
About pressing forces there is a problem that I think nobody considered, I mean the height of the cheese/the amount of curds for a certain diameter. Books describe traditionally made cheeses by mentioning rind type and look and dimensions - dia/height. From this proportion is the recommended pressure derived. Basically, as you increase/decrease the dia of your mould, you should adjust the pressure accordingly. To my opinion this is not enough, because a certain amount of curds in different moulds will give a different height. As curds give a spring form reaction due to the taller/shorter cheese, the pressure should be adjusted accordingly.
Those are my thoughts. I'll be more than happy to hear other opinions.