Well, I am appreciating all of the well-informed participants here, and while my first reaction to the PSI discussion was, ugh, math, I am feeling much better about it now. It's clearly the right way to look at pressing needs accurately independent of cheese size.
I managed to get up to about 140 lbs in my wacky stacked pressing scenario, so for a 4.5" diameter mold I figure that's about 8.75 PSI, which I held for 24 hrs after some time building up to it. That will have to do, and based on looking at the exteriors, everything seems very well knit together and quite smooth. There are some very faint translucent white lines just barely visible here and there that look like they might have once described curd boundaries, but they are near-nonexistent.
Looking forward to seeing how these turn out . . .