Feel is hard to describe and will be something that you will get acquainted with as time goes on, provided that you make the same types of cheeses all the time. Different cheese types, different feel.
I've noticed that you refer to "the cutting board" quite frequently when you are talking about drying your cheeses. Are they lying flat on a cutting board to dry? They really need to be on a mat of some kind that will allow drainage of whey and some air exposure. I use bamboo paper plate holders (bleach them in between uses), as I don't have any official "cheese mats".