What part of the cheese does she find intimidating? What cheese does she actually like?
Pressed cheese does take time to learn to do right so try to give her only the best. Over-acidification, contamination, incorrect rinding, salting techniques and inaccurate temperatures often plague new cheesemakers and they won't know that what they did in the first 30 minutes made or destroyed their cheese until months later, when it gets opened. Tomme is more forgiving and liberal and can be made very mild if you want to.
I suspect however that if Cheddar intimidates her, then she may have hard time with any home made cheese, let-alone one with a name she never heard before, not to mention home-grown mold. It's just a question of how does she cognitively recognize cheese and what is it about it that spooks her. Does she have any diagnosed fear of food? (excuse the very personal question; usually kids far younger consume supermarket cheddar regularly. I have a good friend who has a diagnosed phobia of white foods. There is also a similar phobia for yellow foods, smells, bacteria in food, dairy etc.)