what is the difference between meso and termo?
Not sure how to answer you. They're different types of bacteria that look differently, produce different (or same) types of lactic acid at different (or same) rates. During aging, they also impart different flavor to the cheese.
What do you mean by equivalent? In what way? In acid production rate?
Can I use either or are they each specific to some cheese types?
Bacteria are very specific. Cheese recipes combine culture type, temperature, and process to create a specific type.
I see that a lot of the recipes need meso starter, why? Is there a classification?
Because meso is used for those cheeses. There are many types of classifications for bacteria and for cheese, yes.
Are you really trying to ask why use one bacteria and not another? Because someone made a cheese with a specific bacteria type and then wrote the recipe down. You can make it however you want and deviate from the recipe, but the cheese will be different.