Sure, a couple of days in the fridge won't be a problem. The cold will slow down development, but it will go back to its regularly scheduled aging when it goes back in the cave.
To calculate psi:
Surface area = (Diameter of mold)^2 * pi / 4
psi = (weight applied) / (surface area)
So, for an 8" mold, surface area = 8*8*3.14/4 = ~50 square inches.
If you apply, say, 250 lbs using a dutch-style lever press, 250 / 50 = 5 psi.
By the way, with a dutch style / lever press, you will calculate the amount of weight as the weight applied to the end of the lever * the mechanical advantage of the press. Mechanical advantage on a basic lever press = (distance from pivot to weight) / (distance from pivot to ram).
So if this is the lever:
0------0------------0
The left-hand 0 represents the pivot point. The right hand 0 represents the place where the weight is attached. The middle 0 represents the place where the ram attaches to press down on the cheese. So, let's say it is 6" from the pivot to where the ram attaches, and 12" more from there to where the weight attaches, for a total length from pivot to weight of 18". The mechanical advantage of this press would be 18 / 6 = 3. So if you put 50 lbs of weight on the end of the lever, 150 lbs of weight (force) will be applied through the ram to the cheese.
Hopefully that is at least as clear as mud ...