Wilko supply a polyester 'straining bag' [in the wine and beer section] not cheap at £8 but I reckon it is worth the money. Quite strong, I use it for straining yoghurt so it would do for cheese curds also. It is a decent size and mine is still working well after a few years.
I use another wilko product for sanitising, its 'Wilko Oxi Plus Stain Remover 1kg' costs £2.00 for a kilo. It contains a strong peroxide bleach and is fragrance free. It comes in for brew sanitising as well as cheese making, is food friendly and goes a long way.
I do use muslin as well, though what I use has cut edges. I won't be attempting to seam the edges and if the cloth gets too raggy in my opinion it is time to replace it with fresh.
I suppose my motto is 'have fun', make and enjoy cheese, sourdough, beer you made yourself.
BTW I got over the sourdough temperature thing by setting up a brew fridge at 25°C when I want to make bread. In my opinion 20-21°C is not warm enough.
I'm sure others will share their working method. I don't by any means have any sort of monoploy on 'best ways' to do this activity. I am only a hobbyist and although cost is a factor I don't view my pastime from a commercial stand point.