Epiphany....I went to the SMF software web site and found this...
"Buddy List
A Buddy List displays all of the members on the forum whom you have added as a “buddy”. This list will also show their online status and contact information if available.
You can access your Buddy List to edit buddies via your profile.PrintReplyReply with quote"
In short Go to 1. Profile menu 2. Forum Profile 3. Modify Profile 4. Buddy List.....PHEW long way round the barn. I would think it would be a menu button.
Thanks